Self-confidence is one of the most important things in a person life. You have to be confident if you want to be something in the society. And it is a fact that the confident people lead everywhere. No matter it a school class, a business company or even in the elections. The next thing to self-confidence is Self-esteem, which is even more important than self-confidence.
We always try to be confident no matter what, while giving a presentation in a class or leading a soccer team in the game. But things do not always happen what we expect them to be. We suddenly lose our confidence on the stage, or loss the match in pressure. This also applies to our life goals, dream or whatever you call. As discussed in one of my articles, (Click on the link if you have not read that)
I wrote that our ambition changes with the passage of time. And I have also told its two main reasons. The second reason because of which we give up is also lack of confidence. We are not confident about what we are going to achieve, we get hit by fear and give up. So here is a famous formula of self-confidence by Napoleon Hill:
1: You should tell yourself that I know I am going to achieve this thing (Your goal) in my life. And also that I will have to be persistent and promise to work continuously for it.
2: I will always keep in mind that I am working for a specific purpose, for my goal. And you should take at least ten minutes every day to tell your self that you have set this goal and you have to work for it.
3: I will train myself to work on my dream. For this, I have to work on my Subconscious mind (Click on the word subconscious if you don’t know about it).
4: Write your goal on a piece of paper and stick somewhere in your roam that you will be able to see it every time.
5: And finally, You should promise to our self that while working for my dream or after I have achieved my goal I should try to perish hate, jealousy, selfishness and all the negativity possible. You have to be humble, not arrogant.
This formula was told by Napoleon Hill, a famous self-help writer in 1937. Millions of people have benefited from this formula and many world leaders act upon it. Read further articles related to Napoleon Hills famous book “Think and Grow Rich”.